@jessew@illyBytes I like to chug a bottle of yfood when I can’t eat, though you probably shouldn’t seek advice in that regard from someone lighter than you (50kg)
@l@jessew@illyBytes unless you’re like 140cm this is well within normal range. if you’re 175cm+ like I suspect, you should probably actually be at least 70kg
@l@jessew@_r@star ik but literally one of the things we know is fucking manufactured is modern beaty standard, like literally we made up what "being pretty" and "whats acceptable to be attracted to" up
@jessew@_r@illyBytes@l im a tranny, I don't conform to much you are beautiful the way you are; you probably already believe this yet apply a different standard to yourself
@jessew@_r@illyBytes@l even though this very likely feelse extremely real to you, i don't think that's the truth
I am really reaching here since yknow, I don't know u at all, but indulge me if you will
esp when ur trans i feel it's really hard to separate what you have been told to accept i.e. through years of bullying and what your own thoughts are saying, perhaps about transition goals and stuff like that
I understand this. And I hope that there will, sooner than later, come a time in your life where you can separate the bad from the productive and start loving yourself the way others already love you 🩷 you most definitely deserve it
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